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Post number 30

Since August I have been documenting the utter nonsense that floats around in my mind. So far its been fun, and it has been really cool getting feedback from my loyal readers i have loyal readers!! how cool is that!!?!
Thank you very much for reading!
Even though I started blogging years ago, now is when I have really grown to love it. I like writing, and I hope one day to make a career out of it, so I think this is a great start and good practise till I get my lucky break.
This morning is kinda kicking my ass, despite the fact that the sun is shining really bright even though its El Nino. I discovered something today, I really do not like how small this world is. This information I have discovered today, kinda changes things, okay but not really but it may be significant suspense MUHAHAHA!!
I think I am also too paranoid for my own good dang!! Sometimes I think that I am the cause of some people's actions, even though there is no way I could be involved! I dunno if its being self centered or too paranoid anyhooo I will just try not to think about it.
So on Monday I finished reading 'Act like a lady, think like a Man' by Steve Harvey

This book is so enlightening, Steve Harvey for president!! I advice every woman to get yourself a copy because it will definitely change the way you think and act when it comes to relations with men.
According to the book, men are simple. Men are driven by who they are, what they do and how much they make.
So how do you know that a man loves you? Through the 3 Ps: Profess, Protect and Provide. He will let the whole world know he loves you, he will protect you in the best way he can, and he will always provide for you.
Women, what do men need? Love, Support and Cookies nookie Love your man and be loyal to him, always have his back, and every man needs sex from his woman.
He goes on to categorise women into 2: Sport fish and a keeper. A sport fish is a throw back, a woman a man really does not want to keep, while a keeper is a woman a guy can envision settling down with.
That is just a brief summary about what this book is about, but I promise you that once your done reading this book you will have set standards for yourself when it comes to dealing men, and you will be able to identify men who are just in it for the sex, or the serious, genuine dudes. I am actually excited to put what I have learnt into practise.


I also watched 'He's just not that into you' yesterday. I was skeptical about it, because I did not like the effects the book had on me. But the movie had a star studded cast, and I had heard a lot of raving reviews about it so I decided to give it a chance.
First up I think this is the first movie where Justin Long is actually hot and not a nerdy geek who cannot get any girls!
Anyway his character in the movie gives some splendid advice, most importantly, that if a guy wants to date you, he do EVERYTHING to make that happen!
I have definitely been schooled these past couple of days, and I have come to the conclusion that he is not that into me and that I am no sport fish! Even though I am dying to hear from him I am even dreaming about it!! I know it in my gut that I won't hear from him. I guess I must force myself to say good riddance and keep resolving not to fold!

xxx V xxx

5 comments:

Tricia said...

I liked the movie but thought it was overrated, i must get Steve Harvey's book though coz everyone is talking about it.

Aritza, Goddess of .. said...

Uhmm maybe I should read this book..but I don't think I really wanna hear the truth just yet. lol

nkirdizzle said...

@Tricia I wish it was still showing big screen, it would be like the best date movie ever!! the man will feel pressured!!!
@Aritza you should read it, its glass shattering (like in how i met your mother)It will reveal some things that you may not want to know..

kellie said...

mmmhh...congrats on your 30th post girl!

I'm not permitted to chirp in on matters relationship so, I shall hold my tongue :)

nkirdizzle said...

@kellie thank you. who is refusing you permission to talk about relationship matters?

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